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FIGHT LIKE A GIRL

If there’s one thing I’ve learnt in my 30-something years on this planet, it’s that we are all tougher than we think.  Life might not go our way, but when things don’t go to plan it’s how you handle it that shows your true courage and strength.

Lindi is tougher than most.  When she was diagnosed with breast cancer before she even turned 30 she made a choice; cancer would not beat her.  Instead she made her motto ‘Fight Like A Girl’, and showed cancer what she’s made of.  This beautiful woman’s story is a true inspiration, documented by three Australian photographers, Liesl Cheney, Anel Smit and AVS Photography.

Here I could talk about how beautiful this shoot is, the dress, the makeup, the floral crown. But my words just can’t do her story justice, so today I am so very honoured to let Lindi do the talking…

To be told that you have cancer is a shock to any one. To me, at the age of only 29, it was a big shock and totally unexpected. I had a 10 month old baby at home and no family history of breast cancer. I thought only women my mom’s age could get breast cancer. I was wrong.

My life changed in an instant. I had to make decisions about what route I wanted to take on the road to recovery and after weeks of specialist appointments, biopsy’s and full body scans, my doctors and I finally came to an agreement. We decided that due to the aggressiveness and size of the tumour, I will have 16 sessions of chemotherapy, followed by a double mastectomy with immediate reconstruction and if necessary, a further 6 weeks of radiation. One of my biggest concerns was that I just couldn’t face the idea of having a mastectomy and walking around with no breasts for 6 months to a year, and my surgeon was concerned about the 5cm x 5cm size of the tumour and thought it best to first shrink it and then operate.

Just like most women, one of the first questions I asked before starting chemo therapy was “Will I loose my hair”, the answer was yes. So one morning I woke up, went to a hairdresser and had my hair cut into a pixie style, two weeks later I shaved it all off. I was not going to let cancer take my hair so I took I decided early on that I will not have cancer take over my life, I will not stop smiling, and I will come out the other side a winner.

That was when the #fightinglikeagirl was born. I took cancer head on. The positivity helped me through the tough times. I did not do it alone, I had amazing friends that were there whenever I needed them, a husband that picked up the pace at home with the housework and our daughter and I had faith.  This is what kept me going!

When I was finally finished with chemotherapy, I approached three of my photographer friends and asked them if they will be willing to do a small photoshoot for me, at this point I was mostly thinking I would love to have some photos of myself, documenting this time in my life. When all three agreed and the creative juices started flowing this small idea blossomed into something beautiful and I decided that I had to use this to create awareness about breast cancer in young women.  We got the fabulous Katie from Loui Col Designs involved and we were able to use one of her stunning dresses on the day. We had Lizarre from Timeless Beauty come in and do make up for me including drawing on eyebrows where they had fallen out and sticking on fake lashes to the little lashes that was starting to grow out once again. Courtney from Willow Lane Creative did a beautiful flower crown.

For months I was sick on the couch from the chemotherapy and did not like the bold girl with no eyebrows and no eyelashes in the mirror. However, on that day, I felt like a princess. I am completely over the moon about the amazing pictures and memories from the day. I have always believed that everything in life happens for a reason and even thought we do not understand what the reason is right away, there is a bigger purpose and reason for all our circumstances. This is what fuelled my passion for turning my situation around and using it to help others that might be going through the same thing I did.

You are never to young to have breast cancer. Statistics says that 800 young women will be diagnosed with breast cancer every year in Australia. Only 15% of breast cancers are related to family history. Young women are often diagnosed with larger tumours and more aggressive sub-types of the decease, and needs stronger treatments with more severe side effects. Know your breasts, trust your gut, and check yourself regularly. And above all stay positive.

For those that are going through treatment for breast cancer, keep on fighting like a girl, you are stronger than cancer!

A true inspiration….

  • In the UK, one woman is diagnosed with breast cancer every 10 minutes.
  • 1 in 8 women will develop breast cancer in their lifetime
  • 85% of patients survive for more than 5 years

Support Lindi and thousands of other women like her by helping to raise money for others affected by cancer and funding a new cold-cap therapy which allows women the chance to keep their hair during treatment.

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B.LOVED is also proud to support the Wedding Wishing Well Foundation, funding and organising weddings for couple’s with terminal illnesses. Click here to get involved

You can also support B.LOVED Edit Member Faith Caton who has chopped off her gorgeous long hair to support the Little Princess Trust, providing children with cancer with natural wigs. Click here to donate.

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Louise

After a decade-long career in corporate interior design, I took a giant leap of faith, left the security of an office job, and founded B.LOVED in 2011 as a platform for romantic and beautiful wedding inspiration. Thanks to a whole lot of creativity, hard work and passion, my gamble paid off and B.LOVED became one of the leading wedding blogs in the UK.

You’ll also find me working as an Editorial Stylist, where I design and curate beautiful photoshoots for wedding and lifestyle brands, as well as contributing as a founding member of bridal inspiration hub Aisle Society, and running wedding industry community the B.LOVED Hive from our super pretty base in London. Yep, I definitely have the best job in the world.

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